[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.rraga.sk\/nechajme-deti-poucit-sa-z-vlastnych-chyb\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.rraga.sk\/nechajme-deti-poucit-sa-z-vlastnych-chyb\/","headline":"Nechajme deti pou\u010di\u0165 sa z vlastn\u00fdch ch\u00fdb","name":"Nechajme deti pou\u010di\u0165 sa z vlastn\u00fdch ch\u00fdb","description":"Je prirodzen\u00e9, \u017ee sa o svoje deti boj\u00edme, ale mali by sme ich necha\u0165, aby zistili, \u010do pr\u00edde, ke\u010f urobia chybu. Necha\u0165 deti pou\u010di\u0165 sa zo svojich ch\u00fdb im pom\u00e1ha budova\u0165 ich h\u00fa\u017eevnatos\u0165 a sebad\u00f4veru, a je to d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9, aby sa z nich stali schopn\u00ed, \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed a \u00faspe\u0161n\u00ed dospel\u00ed \u013eudia. Ak deti dostan\u00fa pr\u00edle\u017eitos\u0165 zlyha\u0165,… ","datePublished":"2018-12-13","dateModified":"2023-04-27","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.rraga.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.rraga.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/5667bceccdce92893bac6a7981a373152a8b3fa0ab99c198ba0ac0b49a934248?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/5667bceccdce92893bac6a7981a373152a8b3fa0ab99c198ba0ac0b49a934248?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"rraga.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.rraga.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a294900_w16594_t1545315714.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.rraga.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a294900_w16594_t1545315714.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.rraga.sk\/nechajme-deti-poucit-sa-z-vlastnych-chyb\/","about":["M\u00f3da"],"wordCount":430,"articleBody":"Je prirodzen\u00e9, \u017ee sa o svoje deti boj\u00edme, ale mali by sme ich necha\u0165, aby zistili, \u010do pr\u00edde, ke\u010f urobia chybu. Necha\u0165 deti pou\u010di\u0165 sa zo svojich ch\u00fdb im pom\u00e1ha budova\u0165 ich h\u00fa\u017eevnatos\u0165 a sebad\u00f4veru, a je to d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9, aby sa z nich stali schopn\u00ed, \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed a \u00faspe\u0161n\u00ed dospel\u00ed \u013eudia. Ak deti dostan\u00fa pr\u00edle\u017eitos\u0165 zlyha\u0165, t\u00fdm im vlastne umo\u017e\u0148ujete rozv\u00edja\u0165 ich soci\u00e1lne a emocion\u00e1lne zru\u010dnosti a schopnosti. Samozrejme, nehovor\u00edme, aby ste riskovali ich bezpe\u010dnos\u0165, alebo aby ste nereagovali, ke\u010f potrebuj\u00fa ut\u00ed\u0161i\u0165. Va\u0161ou \u00falohou je podpori\u0165 ich a by\u0165 im nabl\u00edzku, nerobte v\u0161ak v\u0161etko za nich. Ich zru\u010dnosti sa rozv\u00edjaj\u00fa najm\u00e4 vtedy, ke\u010f nie\u010do nejde. Zvl\u00e1danie kritick\u00fdch situ\u00e1ci\u00ed je ako formovanie svalov, nevieme ak\u00e9 siln\u00e9 s\u00fa k\u00fdm ich nepou\u017eijeme. Nechajte ich u\u010di\u0165 sa napr\u00edklad, ke\u010f sa h\u00e1daj\u00fa s kamar\u00e1tom. Hoci je to nepr\u00edjemn\u00e9, deti sa musia nau\u010di\u0165 uvedomova\u0165 si svoje \u010diny, zvl\u00e1da\u0165 em\u00f3cie, pozera\u0165 sa na veci z poh\u013eadu toho druh\u00e9ho, rie\u0161i\u0165 probl\u00e9my a h\u013eada\u0165 kompromisy. Ke\u010f sa rodi\u010d do toho zastarie, die\u0165a prich\u00e1dza o mo\u017enos\u0165 z\u00edska\u0165 potrebn\u00e9 zru\u010dnosti a pou\u010di\u0165 sa zo svojho spr\u00e1vania. Die\u0165a je tak pripraven\u00e9 o mo\u017enos\u0165 zlyha\u0165, bojova\u0165 a znovu sa vzchopi\u0165. Deti s\u00fa potom ustr\u00e1chanej\u0161ie a neochotnej\u0161ie sk\u00fa\u0161a\u0165 nov\u00e9 veci, preto\u017ee nevedia, ako sa s nimi popasova\u0165.Pr\u00edle\u017eitosti pou\u010di\u0165 sa z vlastn\u00fdch ch\u00fdbKe\u010f die\u0165a \u017eiada o pomoc\u2013 najprv nechajte die\u0165a, aby sa pok\u00fasilo n\u00e1js\u0165 rie\u0161enie met\u00f3dou pokus omyl a to od zaviazania si \u0161n\u00farok po dom\u00e1ce pr\u00e1ce. Nechajte die\u0165a prv\u00e9, potom mu navrhnite, \u017ee to sk\u00fasite spolu.Ke\u010f die\u0165a vy\u017eaduje odpove\u010f\u2013 je lep\u0161ie necha\u0165 die\u0165a, aby na to pri\u0161lo sam\u00e9. Za\u010dnite t\u00fdm, \u017ee sa op\u00fdtate die\u0165a\u0165a, \u010do si mysl\u00ed. Pri h\u013eadan\u00ed odpovede bu\u010fte pre svoje die\u0165a oporou. Ke\u010f rie\u0161enie nie je spr\u00e1vne, nechajte die\u0165a, aby na to pri\u0161lo sam\u00e9.Ke\u010f nie\u010do nie je v poriadku\u2013 napr\u00edklad, ke\u010f sa va\u0161e die\u0165a bije alebo rob\u00ed nie\u010do spolo\u010densky neprijate\u013en\u00e9, napr\u00edklad klame, nehovorte mu, \u010do m\u00e1 robi\u0165, sk\u00faste ho rad\u0161ej ot\u00e1zkami nav\u00e1dza\u0165 na to, ako t\u00fato situ\u00e1ciu zvl\u00e1dnu\u0165.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        5\/5 - (2 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Nechajme deti pou\u010di\u0165 sa z vlastn\u00fdch ch\u00fdb","item":"https:\/\/www.rraga.sk\/nechajme-deti-poucit-sa-z-vlastnych-chyb\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]